if anyone knows me, they know that i LOOOOOVE kids but babies (ages 0-4yrs lol) the MOST! haha seriously when kids come into my work i can't help myself! i came across this video on youtube & wtf! lol i cannot contain myself this is too cute for my life!
daffi love the kids!
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
never fall in love with a man who don't love you
we have all done our fair share of hating on another female because they might be involved with a guy we've had history with. we are all guilty & i know i am. honestly, there comes a point in your life where that becomes elementary. most of all, its SO unnecessary when there's nothing to be mad about. if there was a mild history but no feelings exchanged why must there be a problem?
it's like in my best friend's wedding... julz chasing after michael when he was chasing after kim & julz' gay friend made her realize that no one was chasing her. that's the point where you should just claim your loses. there has to be something not right in someone's head when they keep trying profusely to make something out of something that's so blatantly nothing.
like jem said... this is not a movie. he WON'T say i love you back just because you say it to him.
& mokenstef expresses it best in her very fitting jam:
"let me tell you something that just ain't cool... never fall in love with a man who don't love you."
quit being so butthurt.
it's like in my best friend's wedding... julz chasing after michael when he was chasing after kim & julz' gay friend made her realize that no one was chasing her. that's the point where you should just claim your loses. there has to be something not right in someone's head when they keep trying profusely to make something out of something that's so blatantly nothing.
like jem said... this is not a movie. he WON'T say i love you back just because you say it to him.
& mokenstef expresses it best in her very fitting jam:
"let me tell you something that just ain't cool... never fall in love with a man who don't love you."
quit being so butthurt.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
love & life
Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.
Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will find rewarding happiness, not with the man you love but with the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness take away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you; but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.
You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.
Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn't mean you failed in love.
Cry if you have to, but make sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life:
* One is as though nothing is a miracle.
* The other is as though everything is a miracle.
There is no mistake so painful that love cannot forgive. no past so bitter that love cannot accept.
And no love so little that we cannot start all over with.
- einstein
Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words, for you will find rewarding happiness, not with the man you love but with the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness take away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you; but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.
You may find peace in loving someone from a distance not expecting something in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.
Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn't mean you failed in love.
Cry if you have to, but make sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
There are two ways to live your life:
* One is as though nothing is a miracle.
* The other is as though everything is a miracle.
There is no mistake so painful that love cannot forgive. no past so bitter that love cannot accept.
And no love so little that we cannot start all over with.
- einstein
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
its not....
it's not that i have commitment issues...
i just appreciate the options.
it's not that i'm against relationships...
i just haven't come across someone who has made the effort to change my outlook.
it's not that there's something wrong with me that i don't have a boyfriend...
i just know what i want.
it's a little bit & i mean just A LITTLE BIT demeaning when i'm asked "so why don't you have a boyfriend?" in a manner that implies that there's something wrong with me. you might as well ask me, "so what's your dysfunction, that you drive all the boys away?" lol! yesss, i have been without someone for quite some time now... actually a REALLY long time. but i don't see it as something wrong, i've just focused on the relationship with myself all this time. don't get it wrong there have been a few guys along the way but honestly... i just want to live my life. considering the type of person i am & the lifestyle i live, it isn't exactly all easy peasy to find someone who can handle me. lol i kid, i kid.
i know what i want. out of a significant other. out of a relationship. out of a companionship. i've seen many people settle. & i refuse... that's all. =]
i just appreciate the options.
it's not that i'm against relationships...
i just haven't come across someone who has made the effort to change my outlook.
it's not that there's something wrong with me that i don't have a boyfriend...
i just know what i want.
it's a little bit & i mean just A LITTLE BIT demeaning when i'm asked "so why don't you have a boyfriend?" in a manner that implies that there's something wrong with me. you might as well ask me, "so what's your dysfunction, that you drive all the boys away?" lol! yesss, i have been without someone for quite some time now... actually a REALLY long time. but i don't see it as something wrong, i've just focused on the relationship with myself all this time. don't get it wrong there have been a few guys along the way but honestly... i just want to live my life. considering the type of person i am & the lifestyle i live, it isn't exactly all easy peasy to find someone who can handle me. lol i kid, i kid.
i know what i want. out of a significant other. out of a relationship. out of a companionship. i've seen many people settle. & i refuse... that's all. =]
Friday, August 07, 2009
Wednesday, August 05, 2009
dreamer
"All people dream; but not equally. those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find it was vanity. But the dreamers of the day are dangerous people, for they may act their dreams with open eyes to make it possible." -- T.E. Lawrence
Sunday, August 02, 2009
*groove w. emmett
i haven't blogged in a while but i couldn't go to bed without sharing thoughts on tonight's *groove class with emmett agapay....
studio was opened on time, i handled front desk we had about 25 people come take which is always a good thing to see, & emmett was simply amazing. i was steady working... & i mean WORKING... in class tonight. seriously, i feel bad for those who didn't come out because i truly feel like this was a class that people shouldn't have missed out on. i haven't worked so hard, sweated so much, vibed so amazingly, felt so much energy & had so much fun in a class in sooooooooo long! actually, i haven't felt that type energy at groove EVER! to be perfectly honest.
he taught so effectively, he really worked it out with the students... he really knows what he is doing. as i looked around in class i didn't see 1 person who didn't get the choreo. granted there were the different levels of dancer but there was no one lost or anything. the piece was so much fun, he taught with great insight, good knowledge & constructive critiques. man, i wanna be like that for real. although i suck at choreo... i want to be able to teach like him. i really need to start bringing in more instructors like emmett into groove. keep *groove on it!
i don't know... but whatever that was at groove tonight, i DEFINITELY need more of it. the vibe & energy was amazing. its days like this that remind me why i do this dance thing.
very, refreshing.
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group 1 (black sweats & stripped green tank) =]
emmett & company
studio was opened on time, i handled front desk we had about 25 people come take which is always a good thing to see, & emmett was simply amazing. i was steady working... & i mean WORKING... in class tonight. seriously, i feel bad for those who didn't come out because i truly feel like this was a class that people shouldn't have missed out on. i haven't worked so hard, sweated so much, vibed so amazingly, felt so much energy & had so much fun in a class in sooooooooo long! actually, i haven't felt that type energy at groove EVER! to be perfectly honest.
he taught so effectively, he really worked it out with the students... he really knows what he is doing. as i looked around in class i didn't see 1 person who didn't get the choreo. granted there were the different levels of dancer but there was no one lost or anything. the piece was so much fun, he taught with great insight, good knowledge & constructive critiques. man, i wanna be like that for real. although i suck at choreo... i want to be able to teach like him. i really need to start bringing in more instructors like emmett into groove. keep *groove on it!
i don't know... but whatever that was at groove tonight, i DEFINITELY need more of it. the vibe & energy was amazing. its days like this that remind me why i do this dance thing.
very, refreshing.
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group 1 (black sweats & stripped green tank) =]
emmett & company
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