ponder this...

don't make someone a priority when they only make you an option.

lets sit and analyze this. i have seen so many people go thru this kind of situation and i must say it really bothers me. i see this a lot with relationships that involve matters of the emotion & heart. & the epidemic is likely to strike the females in the situation. they love & then they lose & then they simply can't shake it off. females are naturally more likely to get emotionally attached, its a given but where the picture goes wrong is where they allow themselves to stay in this predicament. love, lust & emotion can be so blind.

honestly, boys are very quick to play this game. the game of lies, deceit & broken promises. they will be the first to simply tell you what you want to hear. they manipulate till they get their way & what they want from you. then, at the end of the day you are disposable, irrelevant, & simply another weak minded female. you are milked for what you're worth & never replenished. you are used for your assets & always left high & dry. you are drained of all emotion & energy... & you get no time, no attention & no affection. majority of the time they get their cake AND eat it too. they will do everything in their power to keep you around & put you in that box that they have created. and most fall for it.

if all of your effort is not at least met halfway in the same regard then there is no point. i always go by the philosophy, "it takes effort to get effort." when all we do is give and always fall short to ever receive, realize that you are worth to receive the same in return. so, wake-up & smell the coffee. recognize the game and learn how to win or get out of it. at the end of it all, if you stay in it... you'll always be in it. you can tell yourself and others how much better you are & how you don't deserve this but do you really understand your words? it takes action & change to make it happen. there is nothing more than i hate than a female putting up the strong & independent front & turn right around and fall back to old habits. there are so many females who don't know their worth & don't know what they deserve. quit relying on these "boys" to give you meaning, affection or the time of day. look from within because the greatest love is your own. don't be afraid to be alone. have many of us really experienced being alone & not attached to anyone? no buddies, no boyfriends etc.? because time to yourself is time of realization.

& its time to realize you're better than these stupid boys. & i must say, they come in all ages. you got your young boys & your grown ass boys.

wise up ladies.